How To Make Him Love Me Again: For anyone that has lost that someone special in their life and wants to get them back. This article serves to give you some insight into how this can be done. I wrote an article awhile back entitled, How To Make Her Love Me Again, and I thought it only fair to cover this topic from the other end.
You may not be simply separated or you may not be talking at all anymore but this doesn’t have to be the end. Sometimes couples just need a little time apart to realize how important their relationship really is. I can show you exactly how to make him fall for you again, but first you need to be sure that you want him back in your life. I recommend reading the whole article first before using this method to get him back.
4 Things To Do Before Getting Him Back
- First things first, you should make sure that your head is in the right place. Think about what led to the breakup and if you really want him back or if you just don’t want to be alone. Sometimes it’s a better decision to be alone or find someone that suits you better.
- Consider why you want him back. Was he physically, emotionally or verbally abusive. If this was the case – you should definitely avoid getting back with your ex.
- Make sure that you take some time for yourself. Don’t go rushing back until you feel strong enough emotionally. He may need some time to realize that he misses you too.
- Build up your self-esteem. If you suffer from depression or anxiety, this is a good time to seek some professional help. You’ll be surprised at how much a little treatment can affect your outlook on life and events.
4 Things Not To Do Before Getting Him Back
- Do not call or text him constantly begging to have him back. You should be taking time for yourself before implementing our foolproof guide to getting him back.
- Avoid liking his social media posts. Of course you want to see what he’s up to but liking his posts is going to be putting yourself back instead of helping to move forward. Stay off his Instagram especially. You know how easy it is to accidentally like a photo when trying to zoom in!
- Don’t “accidentally” run into him. You know his routine – you know which gym or bars he frequents. Avoid contact until you’re ready to implement the right steps to getting him back.7
- Avoid contacting his friends asking for news or updates about him. Even if you have mutual friends, there’s a good to certain chance that they’ll tell him all about your desperate calls when they’re out having drinks.
How To Make Him Love Me Again?
Now that you know what not to do, let’s look at how to get him back. You’ve taken time to for yourself and you’re sure that you want him back? He wasn’t abusive in any way? And you’re feeling emotionally stable enough to make this relationship work? Perfect, then let’s get to it.
Whether it’s been days, weeks or even months since your breakup – there’s always a chance that you can get him back. Of course, the sooner you start the better. Waiting years to implement these steps will make it very difficult – when he’s created a whole new life. As soon as you have your confidence back, use these steps to make him love you again.